Years ago when my life seemed hopeless and miserable, a friend encouraged me to seek counseling. Through my employer's Employee Assistance Program, I connected with a counselor who understood the effects of alcoholism. He did an excellent job—allowing me to unload my pain, grief, and unhappiness. We talked about alcoholism and the common thread that ran though my family history and personal relationships. I never realized how much other people's drinking affected my life. My counselor believed in Al-Anon wholeheartedly. He urged me to attend meetings, but I was stubborn and afraid to go. I didn't want to create more tension in my family.

Hopeful that my priest would offer me another option, I started visiting with him. However, he immediately suggested I attend Al-Anon. So there I was, my priest and my counselor were encouraging me to attend Al-Anon. I continued making excuses, but eventually went to my first meeting. Al-Anon was just what I needed—laughter, encouragement, understanding, tools to take care of myself, and so much more.

I still keep in touch with the counselor, and he uses my name as a contact person. I give him newcomer packets and copies of The Forum magazine for his clients. Counseling was a great place for me to unload and start healing. My priest has since passed away, but I believe he is encouraging me and watching over my journey. He helped me with forgiveness and acceptance. I am grateful to both professionals, but I also needed the sharing and support of people who understood my story. I needed Al-Anon. It has been a lifesaver for me. I'm grateful for the caring, understanding, and encouragement that my counselor and priest gave me because I found Al-Anon and a happier, healthier way of life.

By Amy H., Iowa
The Forum, April 2005

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